Peter BurtonWho me!?
It’s the others that need to change
That’s exactly what I used to think.
Wow, was I good at being honest with others!
So many judgements, criticisms and opinions.
How they were wrong, I was right and if only they’d see sense
(my way of course), everything’d be fine
Guess what they were thinking?
So there we were, stuck in our positions of rightness, with no idea how to break free,
just getting dizzy going round in circles, as if caught in a whirlpool.
Sound at all familiar?
So what changed?
I learned that the only place to start is not with what I said to others but what I said to myself.
My own thoughts and feelings.
And when these two combine, they make either an awesome or awful combination.
I realised that any problems from what I did or said was a consequence of what I was thinking and feeling.
This explained why I’d behave differently with my wife, children and the students I was teaching when the outer situation and circumstances were identical.
The Remedy
Fortunately, like any knowledge and skill shortage, it’s a temporary problem solved by learning and applying the missing pieces.
After learning & applying the knowledge and skills I learned from a variety of teachings, I noticed a quite wondrous improvement in my communication with others. I found that my inner calm and clarity enabled me to have conversations that previously were difficult, using a method I’ve devised, one I’m keen to share with you.
My Guarantee
I guarantee that when you learn and apply the knowledge and skills, they’ll help you develop the same sense of inner clarity and calm that I’ve experienced. You’ll then deal confidently and successfully with conversations that previously you avoided or stumbled through.
To find out more about what has made such a difference to my communication, click here
Thanks for visiting
Peter Burton